Do you wake up with a sore jaw? Does your partner tell you that you grind your teeth at night? Or maybe you notice yourself clenching your jaw during the day when you are stressed or focused.
If any of this sounds familiar, you are not alone. Teeth grinding, or bruxism, is a common condition that affects both children and adults. The good news is that there are practical steps you can take to reduce it. And when you understand why it happens, you can start to address the root cause.

Why Do People Grind Their Teeth?
Teeth grinding usually has more than one cause, so it’s rarely just one thing. Here are the most common triggers:
- Stress and anxiety: the biggest one. When you are tense, your jaw muscles often hold that tension.
- Sleep issues: Conditions like sleep apnea or simply poor sleep quality can trigger grinding.
- Bite problems: When your teeth do not come together evenly, your jaw may try to find a comfortable position by moving side to side.
- Lifestyle habits: Too much caffeine or alcohol can increase muscle activity during sleep.
Because bruxism often has multiple causes, prevention usually means addressing a few different areas at once.
Manage Stress and Emotional Tension
Your jaw is one of the first places your body holds stress. When you are anxious or overwhelmed, you may clench without even realizing it.
Finding ways to unwind can make a real difference. This does not have to be complicated. A few minutes of deep breathing. A short walk. Write down what’s on your mind before bed. Gentle stretching of your neck and shoulders.
Even small daily habits can help calm your nervous system. Over time, reducing overall stress can lessen how often and how intensely you grind.
Improve Your Sleep Habits
For many people, grinding happens at night. So better sleep often means less grinding.
A consistent bedtime routine helps. Try to go to sleep and wake up around the same time every day. Give yourself time to wind down before bed. Put the phone away. Read a book. Take a warm shower.
Also, pay attention to what you consume in the evening. Caffeine and alcohol can both disrupt deep sleep and increase muscle activity. Cutting back, especially later in the day, may help your jaw relax through the night.
Protect Your Teeth with a Night Guard
A custom night guard is one of the most effective tools for managing bruxism. It does not stop the grinding itself, but it does something just as important: it protects your teeth.
Think of it like a cushion between your upper and lower teeth. It absorbs the pressure so your enamel does not have to. It can also reduce jaw pain and headaches by helping your muscles stay in a more relaxed position.
Dr. Stephen Hoard and Dr. Nicole Hoard can create a custom night guard that fits your mouth comfortably. Unlike one-size-fits-all options from the store, a custom guard stays in place and provides the right level of protection for your unique bite.
Make Small Lifestyle Changes
Sometimes the simplest shifts make the biggest difference.
- Cut back on caffeine: Coffee, tea, and soda can stimulate your muscles, including your jaw.
- Limit alcohol: Alcohol can disrupt sleep and increase grinding.
- Stay hydrated: Dehydration can make muscles tighter.
- Move your body: Regular physical activity helps release tension stored in your jaw and shoulders.
- Watch your jaw during the day: Keep your lips together and your teeth slightly apart when you are not eating. This gives your jaw muscles a break.
Jaw Exercises Can Help
Gentle stretching can loosen tight jaw muscles. Try this: place the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth behind your front teeth. Then slowly open and close your mouth a few times. You should feel your jaw moving smoothly without straining.
If you notice yourself clenching your jaw during the day, take a moment to relax it. Let your teeth come apart. Let your lips close gently. A few seconds of awareness can interrupt the habit.
When to See a Dentist
If you wake up with headaches, jaw pain, or worn-down teeth, it is time to get some help. Grinding can do real damage over time. It can wear down enamel, crack teeth, and even change your bite.
At Hoard & Hoard Cosmetic and Restorative Dentistry, we take a complete approach to bruxism. Dr. Stephen Hoard is a faculty member at The Dawson Academy, where he teaches other dentists how to treat complex bite problems. He and Dr. Nicole Hoard will look at your whole system, your teeth, your jaw joints, and your muscles, to find the best solution for you.
Sometimes that means a custom night guard. Sometimes it means addressing a bite issue or helping you find better ways to manage stress. Whatever the cause, we will work with you to protect your smile and help you feel better.
You Do Not Have to Live with Jaw Pain
Teeth grinding does not have to control your mornings. You do not have to wake up sore or worry about how your teeth look. Help is available, and it starts with a conversation.
Call us today at (252) 507-0373 or request an appointment online. We are accepting new patients from New Bern, Havelock, Trent Woods, and all across Coastal Carolina. Let us help you find relief.